Break the Nose of Every Beautiful Thing by Jack Cooper

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These poems include sharp observations of various scientific topics, showing that science is worthy subject of poetry.

Ode to Blu Tack is perhaps one of my favourite of the poems, as is the sequence Under the Microscope

The Levels by Helen Pendry

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Shaped by questions of power, of the role of the military in economy, of local identities under threat and thrown in sharp relief in a Welsh speaking context, there is a lot going on in this novel, and I found it hard to keep up with it all at times.

The characters, and it is a big cast, risk being caricatures – they have clear roles in the story and perhaps lack a roundedness, motivations lack some of the complexity that typifies real life.

There was a lot to like about it, and wanted to connect with it but something didn’t quiet click for me unfortunately.

Topics About Which I Know Nothing by Patrick Ness

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This is an eclectic set of short stories, which is playful in its use of form.

Of these “Jesus’ elbows and other Christian urban myths” was one that perhaps hasn’t stood the test of time – in 2004 this collection of parody conspiracy theories probably read as witty, but now it is hard to separate it from an average day on Twitter, these parodies have been overtaken.

The one that I found most successful was “2,115 Opportunities” which recounts the ‘same’ incident happening in different realities, the chance encounter (or non-encounter) between two people – asking questions of what we might call fate, or see fate in things, it somehow feels more romantic seeing all the times that the spark didn’t happen.

Becoming Ted by Matt Cain

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As I mention in earlier post, this echoes Sounds Like Fun, the power dynamic between Ted and his husband is the same toxic space as Eoin and Rich, and we quickly go into a dark place but the bulk of the novel is a long and hope-filled climb out of that place.

Set around a seaside ice-cream shop it is well away from the typical “gay” contexts and stories. But this is part of an uplift of stories of validation about being confidently queer in minority spaces, that you don’t have to run away to the big city to become yourself as a queer person.

I read it in Gran Canaria around a pool where there were only gay men and I am so grateful to have access to that sort of space, but this spoke to the wider reality of life – the majority of life is spent with straight people – and that means you are sometimes a welcome guest, sometimes an unwelcome guest, but very rarely at home.

It also echoes Michael Tolliver Lives because Ted is middle-aged – although the change to his relationship was not a choice it opened up the door to a renewing of himself and his identity. In this we get a really positive message that at any stage in life there can be growth and the opportunity to embrace new challenges and opportunities. That the expectations of others should not be the definition of us.

In lots of ways this was a good holiday read – but it was more than that - it speaks deeply to our humanity, it made me look myself in the mirror and ask if I always give my best self to those I love?

Sounds Like Fun by Bryan Moriaty

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I had read Harsh Cravings on the plane to Gran Canaria, I then read this, and later in the holiday read Becoming Ted, all of which look hard at relationships, and in particular Sounds Like Fun and Becoming Ted cover common ground – I almost began to wonder if my subconscious was trying to tell me something…

I don’t think it is a uniquely gay experience that low self-esteem creates the context that the moment anyone shows interest in you you fully embrace that, and often that results in accepting toxic behaviour because you are so grateful to be in a relationship, any relationship feels better than nothing.

Eoin met Rich at the moment of coming out, and everything from the first moment has red flags, yet years later they are in a steady if unfulfilling relationship.

Rich suggests they open their relationship up, this links back to Harsh Cravings insights on what that means, but it massively backfires on Rich – until that moment Eoin had been entirely dependent on Rich for validation, now Eoin has permission to find that elsewhere and then a light bulb goes on for Eoin about the power dynamic between him and Rich.

This is an insightful story about toxic relationships – but it should not be read as a conclusion that all open relationships are in reality exit strategies…

Harsh Cravings by Jason Haaf

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The autumn of 2020 was a time of heightened experience for so many of so, and that framing is a key part of what drives Jason Haaf reflections.

It is honest about sex, in a range of settings, exploring the difference between “open relationships”, Haaf seeing emotionally open and sexually open relationships as distinct, but negotiating the boundaries is a complex ongoing work.

However it is important to have more writing about that experience as it affirms that complex is not unhealthy, and certainly no worse that other “simple” relationship boundaries – indeed it is those that see their relationships as static rather than evolving that are probably in the most unhealthy situations.

This is a shining example of the great work Polari Press is doing.

Dancing on Eggshells by John Whaite

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The inclusion of 10 or so pages of recipes between each chapter means the actual memoir is pretty brief, which is a surprise given John has had a life eventful enough to have filled many more pages.

John’s childhood on the farm and in the family chip shop has a nostalgic feel, evoking the late 1960s or 1970s rather than the reality of the 1990s.

Although there is a certain openness about his family I don’t think you ever quite get under the skin of it. I remember very clearly watching the Bake Off final that John won, and his reaction to winning being that now, finally, his Mum would be proud of him. And I remember thinking “wow if you have to win a major reality TV show to cross that Threshold there must be a lot of baggage to work through”. I am not saying that we as readers are owed anything but I feel there is a lot being left unsaid.

When we get to Strictly it was interesting to have read some of John’s reflections on the way, to paraphrase, the producers were keen that he didn’t present “too gay” with the way Leyton has been able to really lean into the queerness of his identity this year.

I was also caused to reflect on the Instagram journeys of the Kiss a Boy participants in light of the roller-coaster of celebrity – they are probably at risk of being at the crest of the wave, as the calendar rolls over in a couple of weeks they will be the stars of “last year’s” hit TV show – and I really hope that they don’t hit the ground as a result so hard they are permanently broken...